By Jim Desmond
There finally seems to be light at the end of the tunnel — a tunnel that, at times, seemed like it would never end. Gov. Gavin Newsom’s announcement that June 15 could see the reopening of all businesses in California was welcome news for everyone. With hospitalization rates coming down, kids finally back in the classroom and the unemployment numbers continuing to drop in San Diego County, we might finally be able to look forward.
We must continue to follow all the safety protocols and not let our collective guard down, but hopefully soon things will be back to normal.
Over the past few weeks, I’ve been asked, “What have you learned over the past year?” It’s an interesting question and one that took me a few days to reflect on and consider. Often in the midst of a tragedy, you can learn incredible things about yourself and, in this case, a society.
The biggest thing I’ve learned over the past year is that political discourse is driving us apart. Far too often, instead of coming together and finding common ground, we stand in the corner and throw rocks at each other. Politicians are guilty and social media certainly adds to the animosity with anyone able to name-call anonymously from behind a computer screen. The last year has brought a striking reminder that life is precious. Over 3,700 San Diegans died from this horrific virus. Overdoses have risen dramatically. Students have had to sit behind a computer screen for hours a day, instead of being in the classroom and interacting with each other. No matter what your political affiliation, or what you think about politics, nobody wants this.
At times, I’ve disagreed with many of the decisions locally and statewide — from closing the beaches to not allowing all businesses the opportunity to safely open. But I also think Dr. Wilma Wooten, our county’s public health officer, Chief Administrative Officer Helen Robbins-Meyer and the county team have done an outstanding job dealing with an unprecedented virus. I’ve also been amazed at all of the health-care workers who have stepped up, come out of retirement and worked on testing and the vaccinations. Everyone put aside their differences to come up with a vaccine in a record amount of time, to save lives. This is a perfect of example of what we can accomplish when we put our differences away and remember we are all Americans and we are all human beings.
We still have many issues that we need to take care of in San Diego County, including homelessness, behavioral health issues, fire safety and much more. You may think from the headlines that we never agree upon much of anything at the Board of Supervisors, but we have five members on the board and usually about 90 percent to 95 percent of the items we receive we all agree on. In fact, just last month the Board of Supervisors unanimously passed two comprehensive actions that will address homelessness throughout San Diego County.
For the 5 percent to 10 percent of the items that we disagree on, we must continue to respectfully debate. The way we form the best ideas and learn about different perspectives and topics is by listening. Name-calling is always a way to bypass debate and score a quick point for your “team,” but it doesn’t accomplish anything. And when we can’t come together, we must agree to disagree and move forward, productively.
So as we move forward, I think we should all take a moment to reflect on what we’ve learned during this pandemic. Let’s continue to be curious and question authority, but let’s put down our rocks, let’s start to debate in a civil manner and let’s treat everyone with respect. The worst is over and the best is yet to come. Let’s move forward San Diego, together!
